My Mediumship Process.

I work like an interpreter. I take the information that is conveyed to me and then translate it into English. Those Beyond generally communicate to me using images, thoughts and emotions. I have to take the non-verbal messages they are sending and translate them into words.

While it is not uncommon for someone to relay a name to me, it is more complex and requires more effort on both my part and the part of those on the other side. Sometimes sound-alike words or similar sounding names are the closest approximation I can translate. Remember that I am translating and like all translators I may not choose the best English equivalent, so be prepared to interpret what I say from your own framework and personal history.

When we first make contact there is often a period of time where communication is difficult. Each person (and animal!) on the Other Side is different and has a different language style. They learn to adjust to me and I learn to adjust to them. For those recently passed this can be a more time-consuming process but with a little time and effort the communication becomes easier and more accurate. This effort rarely lasts more than a few minutes but can be longer for some souls.

Often loved ones have significant information that they want to convey and they will waste no time launching into a long monolog. It’s helpful to let them get it out of their system before we ask questions. Some of what is conveyed may have no immediate importance but often manifests later as helpful information or as something you had not thought about for some time. It’s not uncommon that later, when reviewing what has been said, to have an “ah-ha” moment.

What I do requires a fair amount of focus so please make an effort to reduce any possible distractions in your environment.

Verification:
We all have special moments that center around people, places, things, ideas. Many of these are seemingly trivial or obscure but deeply personal memories that only years together can create. Your loved one will often choose one of these to help you connect and recognize them.

I advise you to let this happen naturally. This dynamic is very tenuous and asking for specific responses to code words or questions can distract me from the process. Unfortunately, we can’t ask for their personal PIN number. Those on the other side will find a way to make sure you know it’s them.

Questions:
Feel free to ask any thing you want. Responses can range from none to cryptic to very specific. Every one is different and it’s impossible to predict how a person will respond. A session can evolve into an almost natural discussion and I’ve found that this is where the most healing and information can be found.

Help From Friends:
Sometimes I may ask spiritual guides and teachers on the other side for assistance. I have been blessed with a small group of loving souls who are generally available to help out in circumstances where communication may be a bit more difficult.

Robert Lee